Who Am I??

Well, earlier I was having a pity party. I am in no way where I should be with my identity in Christ and that's okay. But I have had a very difficult weekend trying to get over myself. I just don't understand this identity and humility thing. Where is the balance when it comes to people doing or saying things to me that are just wrong? If it's my pride that take's offense and it's humility that forgives then where does my identity come in?? How do I walk away in confident forgivness seeing myself(as well as them) as God see's us His people?These are the thoughts I was having this morning until I recieved some great advice. "My identity is my identity weather I know who I am or anyone else does." This tells me that it cannot be taken away from me no matter what other people think of me or how they treat me. I just need to keep learning and studying on who I am in Christ. Because the danger does not lie in wut people think of me. The danger lies in me not being certain of who I am in Christ. Because in the end how they treat me is based on wut they think of me, and more importantly wut they think of themselves. I just gota keep telling myself this.